Victims of Rape, should never be believed on their word. Rape Culture is a Myth

I cannot believe I have to write this over and over.   People just don’t get it.    In North America we do not have a rape culture.   We have the opposite of one.   No one promotes the idea of rape, no one actively fights for the right to rape, there is no cabal of people plotting rapes.

No.   In North america rape by the stats is pretty fucking rare.   In the United States it happens to less  than a percent of women.   In Canada it is less.

We vilify people who are only accused of rape.  Let alone convicted of the crime.    A person’s life, reputation and career can be destroyed by an unverified accusation.    Look at what happened to Mr. Gnomeshi.   He was accused.   Not even charged, and his employer fired him, he was vilified in the media and when it came to the trial it turned out that the  women had lied, to police, to the public and to the court.  Even today, there are frothing at the mouth liberals who believe he was guilty.

The same people who refuse to look at evidence, are the same people who want to remove your rights.   They hate men.   They hate white men in particular.    They don’t care if the women lie to get attention.   In their eyes, women are right, the victim (if she is a woman) should always believed.   And that Men’s right’s are laughable.

Victims of Rape, should never be believed on their word.  Especially those that gain media fame.  The majority of famous rape cases turned out to be false claims.   Not all, but most.  And as such, the men have every right to be believed innocent until proven in a court of law by Habeous Corpus.  (Evidence).      No evidence, no crime.

The rape stats the media trots out like candy each time there is a discussion on rape is a fairy tale.   One in Six is blatantly a lie, as it matches the rape stats of a war torn country.   Even on Christmas eve in Germany are the numbers not that high.   Or in Denmark, the rape capitol of the world.   The numbers still don’t reach One in Six.

Places like Islamic nations are full of rape and unfortunately they don’t keep those numbers because in many of those countries they don’t think a woman has a right to deny sex to a man so it can’t be rape.

Yet the women in western culture think that there is.    Grow up Libs.  Rape culture is a myth.   And no I don’t believe you were raped.

Dear World, Justin Trudeau doesn’t represent Canada.

Dear World Population,

First I would like to thank you for reading my open letter.   I know that you are busy, so I will try to keep this short.

Justin Trudeau does not represent Canada.     Yes I know, he is the PM of the crown corporation of Canada, and claims he is the representative.    However, I will state this.   He does not represent the values, nor the ideals of the majority of Canadians.

How can he be the PM then you ask?    Good question.   First, and foremost, the majority didn’t vote for him.   Believe it!

The problem with our voting system is our leaders are chosen years in advance.   The media manipulates their audience with back and forth promotions to make it seem like it is a fair and honest election.     As I have written in the past about elections  and the process I won’t get into here, except that our votes don’t matter and that we do not live in a democracy.    If we did the people’ who removed their votes would be counted.   In this country though, the people who don’t vote are left behind.     In reality only a very small percentage of the Canadian population actually voted in the last election and of them an even smaller number voted liberal.

You see in our country, we are forced to vote for a party, not an individual.   So if you like the candidates objectives in your riding and vote for them then the party gets the seats in parliament.   This means that the person who is head of that party gets to be PM of the country.      If you don’t like the leader of the party but feel the only there is one candidate who falls in with your values or ideas of how the country should be run but hate the leader of that party, you really only have 2 choices.  Vote anyway or not vote at all.    Last election, the major portion of the population didn’t vote.

Now I know what your thinking.   “Then vote and make a difference”.   It doesn’t matter.   After speaking with Elections Canada, they informed me that even if only 10 people in the whole country voted then then we would still have a PM and the government would still run.

That is NOT a democracy.

So again, Justin Trudeau does not represent Canadians or our values.    His mindset is of third wave feminism which is about elevating women, giving them things like money, jobs, opportunities simply based on their gender instead of actually earning those things.

Recently he called for all Canadian’s to “embrace feminism and not be scared of it”.     This caused an uproar in the comment section of every media source that printed an article about this.

Canadians’ do not like third wave feminism.    Canadians believe in real equality, not the brand of equality that takes from men who have earned their money, job etc, and giving to to women simply because they are women.        This brand of feminism goes against the original brand of feminism that was about women having the right to work along side men and earn the same money and the same promotions as men.    Not be handed those positions, without earning or working for it, simply based on the the anatomy.

The original feminists who fought back in the 60’s speak out against this current crop of so called feminism.

In this country we believe in fair treatment.   We believe if you work hard in your career, and put in the time, sweat and tears into your job then you deserve and should move up the ladder.    You don’t get handed the board of directors position simply because you have a degree in gender studies.

To listen to our PM and see his efforts on behalf of feminism you would think we are all feminists, and we are definitely not.     It’s time to call out third wave feminism by all.  Time to call out the PM for pandering only to an ideal that puts men less than women instead of on equal footing.    It’s time to shout down this nonsense from all sources, and stop this before it really becomes harmful on our society.

Canada used to be peacekeepers, and the majority of us still believe we can be this again.
Canada used to be accepting of other cultures and groups.    We believe we can be this again.

Canada used to accept all religions and faiths and we believe we can be this again.

Don’t let Justin Trudeau’s  face fool you.    He is on a leash being controlled by third wave feminism, and he doesn’t speak for us.

And Justin, if you are reading this, understand this, you are a tool for the feminists.   You are not a feminist.   They will throw you under the bus the minute you are no longer a use to  them.    A man cannot be a feminist, that is like a black person supporting the slavery of black people.    Stop pandering to them and start representing Canada.  The real Canada.    Otherwise you may lose your job.

Calling all so called victims – Your actions have repercussions.

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One thing I hear about each day, is case after case of men who have been accused of rape or sexual assault in the papers.    I barely read those articles anymore, simply due to the fact, they are all the same.   The person accused had plied the poor victim with booze or drugs, or had met the poor victim at a party, got drunk together, and then the poor victim went home with the accused and then well, rape.

If you have been a victim of rape, it can be traumatic.   We all understand this.   I have had two attempts of rape happen to me.

Being a victim doesn’t mean you are blameless.   It means something bad has happened to you.   It doesn’t mean you are not responsible, nor does it mean you are one hundred percent blameless.

I’ll use the current Cosby case as an example.   Here is a woman who admitted under oath, that she went over to Cosby’s Hotel Room. of her own free will.   He offered her drinks and she accepted willingly.   He offered her drugs.   She took voluntarily.

I’m stopping there.

This is why I don’t think is much of a victim.  Well, sorry, rather she is a victim of her own actions.    She accepted the booze, and drugs of her own free will.  He didn’t force her to drink and do the drugs.  He didn’t hold a gun to her head.

Does this excuse Cosby if he did it?    No it doesn’t, but it does give a clear idea of what the situation was at that meeting.   And shows the woman was using poor judgement, and was at least a victim of her own stupidity.

Now I’ll give more detail to my two experiences.
I’ll start off by stating (I’ve mentioned in other blogs), that I’m gay.   In my younger days I used to go to bathhouses.   These were and are places were gay men of all ages go to have sex.   They had reached their height in the Nineties when gays were not yet accepted and there was still a danger to go to a gay bar.   It was also a great place for those who were still in the closet to go and have sex.

Now on this night, I had been out drinking at a dance club.  I had gone to the bathhouse (because I didn’t find anyone at the bar to go home with), and got a room.    In bathhouses when you rent a room it’s this tiny room with this cheaply made bed in it, with a vinyl covered mattress and thin cotton sheet.    Everyone who goes to a bathhouse, can either rent a locker or a room, and you are given a towel to wear and that’s it.    Basically your naked in a towel and wander around until you find someone you want to have sex with.    Or, like me you can rent a room and wait for the guy to come to you.     This doesn’t mean you can’t be choosy.   In fact many people who go to these places are.   We all have our types.

Anyway, I was laying on the bed with the towel barely covering me, when this really, really drunk guy showed up at my open door.  I got a bad feeling so I told him no thank you, but I wasn’t interested (this is the politest way there to let the person know to go away).    The guy however, had different ideas and came in and shut the door.   He proceeded to try to throw my legs above his shoulders and penetrate me.    I used both feet on his chest and threw him off, which he flew backwards into the wall.   That wasn’t enough and he again tried.     And again I threw him off.   Banging his head hard on the wall.   After a third try he left my room.

I didn’t call the police and even though I was a victim of an attempted rape, it was still my fault.   I knew this at the time and to this day I don’t blame that guy.   I put myself in that position and I knowingly ran that risk.   This is the risk you take when you go and and sexually tease strangers.  It’s not pretty but it’s true.  When you sexually tease people, you run the risk of pushing the wrong button on someone that will set them off.

The second time, that I consider attempted rape, was when I lived in BC.  I lived in this gay hotel and was in the lounge drinking and chatting with the cute bartender.   I was happily drinking and at the end of his shift he offered to take me to his room.    I drunkenly agreed.   We got up to his room and I promptly passed out.  With my jeans and underwear on.    The next thing I remember was waking up and I was naked with him inside me.  I had no recollection of even going up to his room or half the night at the bar.  So I freaked out.   Pushed him off em and accused him angrily of raping me.     He was horrified.   He apologized profusely and even sent me flowers the next day.    I realized after that he wasn’t at fault.  I was.  I had accepted his offer to go to his room and that was implied consent.   I was the one who made the mistake of 1.  Accepting free drinks from him, 2.  Going up to his room in that state.   So I in no way put the full blame on him.

Now fast forward to today and you get you Social Justice Warriors who think that a victim has zero responsibility in their actions and I am telling you that you are full of it.     You are not blameless.     What you wear is important, your actions before hand are important and how you interact with a person are important.    If you tease and tease someone, and then say “No no, no!” you are risking pushing that button on that person who is not mentally stable.     If you accept drinks from strange men and then go home with them, expect they want to have sexual intercourse with you.

If you accept drinks from strangers, if you go home with strangers, then you run the risk of rape or sexual assault.    There is a good chance you will be going home with someone decent.   Don’t get me wrong there, but if you’re going home with a new guy every week or every few days, then the odds are pretty good that you will end up being a statistic.

Now, here is the advice.     You are in control of your life.  That means you have to accept responsibility for your actions, and as such, take precautions.   Learn self-defense, carry pepper spray.   Make sure a friend knows where you are going etc.

This is not taking any responsibility of a crime off the criminal.  What this does is help stop you from becoming a victim and the crime from happening in the first place.

It’s like a car.  You don’t go parking your car in a crime riddled neighborhood and leave the doors wide open and the keys in the ignition.  If you did that and your car gets stolen, were you asking for it?   Yes.  The person who stole the car is still a criminal but you can bet your sweet ass you asked for it, by doing that.

Same with going home with strange men, teasing them, and then denying them sex.    Most men will put up with that and respect your choice, but go through enough men and the odds are you will find one who won’t respect your saying No No.

I really hope this gets passed on and the message gets through to at least some people who believe that no victim is at fault for their actions because as I have just shown, that isn’t correct.

2015 Top Ten List Fails for Feminists

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2015 saw many fails for Feminists.  This is my list of my favorite top 10 of their fails (some carried over from 2014), and in my opinion, why feminism is fighting a loosing battle.

10. #Manspreading Campaign

This campaign was was designed to “shame” (Hypocrites) men into closing their legs to give room to women who want to sit down on public transportation in NYC.    This short lived campaign was started by some over privileged white college student women, who had nothing better to do, than harass men on the subway.

The campaign garnered notoriety and was in the papers.  The people who ran the subway system decided to make this a courtesy rule and put up signs in their subway trains.    This resulted in the arrest of 2 men after midnight who were on an almost empty train but because their legs were spread got arrested.   The cases of course were thrown out of court by a sensible judge, and after that the campaign to attack men for “spreading” their legs to far, was done.

9.  Potty Mouth Princess Campaign

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Nothing says equality than using little girls to push a political agenda by swearing at their elders, specifically male elders.   The FCKH8 campaign was short lived and garnered huge amounts of criticism from everyone, including some prominent feminists.    This of course didn’t stop the makers of the campaign, because in their eyes, any publicity is good publicity, so they stepped it up a notch to fight domestic abuse …

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Of course when a child is beaten black and blue like the princess above, we call this child abuse, and putting them on posters is called exploitation, but hey, it’s okay because it’s feminism and for a cause.   Huge fail.

#8.  Anita and that other chick whining to the UN. 

Anita whatsherdonkeyface, and the other one decided to go to the UN to fight against online cyber bullying.   After they presented their speech, they actually made feminism look even worse and helped turn the tide of women going against feminism.

Their best argument for censorship on the internet was people having a different opinion than theirs, not being allowed to block or report people who have a different opinion than theirs and best of all, anyone who isn’t a feminist to be censored.

#7.  #BanBossy

The concept of this campaign was to again “shame” people for using the word bossy when it comes to women.    Some people are bossy but according to feminists, women are not bossy, just expressing themselves.  Cause you know… feminist can’t ever be bossy.
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#6 Free The Nipple!

According to feminists, this is a big button issue that needed to be addressed.   They wanted to be able to post photos online of their bare breasts but also be able to walk around in public bare chested.

This was one of my favorites because I know a bunch of feminists in my area who thought this was great and supported it.   And I pointed out that they can legally go out bare chested, that nothing was stopping them from doing so in Ontario.       They’re response was to of course blame men for their insecurities of walking around bare chested.   I asked why, they would respond in the typical manner that “I don’t want to be stared at” or “I don’t want to be sexualized”.  (Usually from the hideous women who drink Ben and Jerry’s Ice Cream for breakfast)…  And I pointed out that if they (women), walked around bare chested more often then it would be common place and no one would blink twice at it.     And ,… this is when their argument falls flat .   Fail.

#5.  Shirtgate

A scientist successfully landed a rover remotely on a moving comet for the first time in human history.    That should have been celebrated by everyone, but feminists with less than half a brain attacked the man due to the fact he was wearing a shirt that they found offensive, due to the fact there was scantily clad on the shirt.     It didn’t matter that the shirt was made by a woman friend of the scientist who created the shirt for him as a present and is a feminist herself.   Nope.   They again pulled out the “shame” tactic and had the poor man in tears on national television apologizing for the shirt, tarnishing his great achievement.

#4.  Rape Culture

A movie that came out a few years back called “rape culture” caught the attention of feminists who jumped on the idea that we live in a society that actively promotes rape and protects rape.

This idea however, fails completely when looked at logically and by the stats and as well, as by looking at reality.

Western society doesn’t promote rape, it demonizes it.   So much that even the flimsiest accusation can ruin a man’s life.

In fact in western society, we have less than a percent of a percent of rape crime in our society.    Men are given long sentences if convicted of rape.

That brings me to …

#3 Cosby

This one is still going on even though the media controversy started in 2014.    Apparently Cosby should be tried for rape on hazy recollections and no proof from almost 40 years ago.

According to feminists, it doesn’t matter, the victim should be treated as if she is telling the truth, regardless of lack of evidence or facts.   Ignore the fact the women admitted to drinking and doing hard drugs at the time of their alleged rapes with Cosby.

According to the feminists, a rape victim shouldn’t have to prove the guy raped them, the guy should be proving his innocence.

In other words, let’s take all responsibility off the plaintiff and put it all on the defense.

Thankfully as of last month Cosby has decided to sue the women for defamation of character.    Good Luck Mr. Cosby.

#2 Air Conditioners are Sexist! gxfHjJl

According to this so called “journalist” for the Guardian Newspaper in the UK, air conditioners are sexist against women.    Due to a study that showed that women feel cold more keenly than men.   So when the office air conditioner is on, it should be, according to her, turned down to a comfort level for the women in the office and let the men sweat.

This whole thing went world wide and people laughed and thought this was a joke until they realized it was a serious topic and so many people took this as another notch in how feminists make themselves look utterly idiotic.

#1 Gamergate

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Yes this is still happening and has been talked about, almost nonstop all year in the gaming community.   Feminists constantly and consistently make themselves look like complete morons with this.

In case you don’t know what this is about…

It started as the people in the gaming community, complained on how there was no neutrality in the journalism when it came to games.   And they were right.   A gamer will get a constant barrage of reviews that praise this game or that game and nary a negative review happens.   This is due to the fact the game developers pay these people to write positive reviews.     This is called a paid endorsement.    Many articles in newspapers and magazines are paid endorsements and you don’t even realize it.

This really didn’t get any controversy until Anita Sarkesian and her chummy “I am a feminist” male writer buddies decided to make this a commentary against women.   And so a campaign was launched by her and her reviewer friends to discredit the gamers who complained.

This had nothing to do with sexism in gaming or feminism in reality.   It was to protect their cash cow.   Can’t have their audience criticizing their sources of income after all.

They hid this under a veil of feminism and sexism in gaming by gamers and the developers, in an effort to divert the attention away from themselves.    They realized during this campaign that the developers would bow under pressure of the pen so they would attack anything and anyone in gaming, citing sexism.   From the lack of female lead characters, to flimsy female outfits, to violence against women in games.

They did convince a small few at the beginning.   The HoneyBadgers for instance had been ejected from Com-icon when a feminist complained about the content of the comics being displayed at the com-icon both by HoneyBadgers. (Women by the way).

Then things heated up when they demanded women superhero characters (even though there are thousands in the comic books), and so companies like Disney (who bought marvel) announced they were making Thor female.   (The Norse God of Thunder).   And wonder woman got a new outfit that covered her more but still made her look feminine.

This enraged some of the geeks and nerds out there who rightfully complained about the buckling under the pressure from the feminists who until this past year, didn’t complain about this before (These characters have been around for over 50 years).

To this day gamergate is still going but has lost much of it’s momentum because the feminists have been making themselves look bad with every new demand.

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Anyway, that is my list.    If you think there is a feminist fail that should be on the list feel free to comment below.

Cheers!

 

Dear Feminists and Canadian Universities…. This is what happens when you belittle, and demean half the worlds population.

Dear Feminists and the Universities of Canada,

I’m writing this to tell you something.    Don’t try to use your feminist logic to assume I’m saying something else.  I’m not.   What I say, is what I mean.

I am not making a threat.  I am making a statement.

This open letter is in regards to the online comments that have been made recently online, by the kids in 4chan.   So far, their comments, which have not been threats, but you chose to view this as a threat, and that is fine.    I state this is fine, because, for you to feel threatened, you must think that these people must have reason to be angry with you, and in that logic, you are correct.

Universities have allowed feminist ideology to infest campus doctrine and has spread like a bacterial infection that resists any antibiotics.     It attacks men at every chance it can,   It’s professors are there to teach reason and logic, and instead teach illogical, nonsense in gender studies courses.

During their university days, they are inundated with rhetoric of hate.  Hate against men.   That one in four men in college will commit an act of rape, or that they will be rape upwards of five times in their life.  That a woman, who is strong and independent, cannot accept responsibility of consent when she has been drinking, and has been raped, regardless of her approval for sexual intercourse, and yet the man, who is equally drunk, is responsible for his consent.  (All of which are lies)

Due to the illogical thought process,  that feminists now have, all due to the gender studies courses and their so called professors, they come out hating the world and blaming men for their lack of direction, lack of education, and are unable to get jobs.     They go on to blame men, yet again, via the mythical patriarchy, and the equally mythical wage gap, which of course has been debunked by even prominent feminists.

You teach these young women, to be entitled to whatever a man earns, instead of earning it for themselves, like other strong independent women have done throughout the ages.   You teach them that they need to do whatever they need to do, to steal a man’s earnings, ruin a man’s life, and even to lie, when it comes to rape, assault and other serious crimes.

This is not only affecting young women in serious ways, but young men as well.   The toxic nature of feminism in universities, has caused young men who participate in these gender studies courses to loose their sense of self and become self hating, looking for approval from their female counterparts.  Seeking not only approval but a sense of identity.  By teaching things like CIS gender, and that masculine behavior is toxic to society, you are teaching hatred.   These young men come out of universities with low self esteem, many have lost their identities that took a lifetime to build, and even question their gender orientation, causing physical harm, emotion harm and in some cases, death by suicide.

Universities used to be places of learning, but have now become places of hate.   They preach, that is okay for women to be allowed “safe places”, but not men.   Groups like CAFE are attacked, when they wish to have meetings to discuss men’s issues that affect them, but because they do not accept the feminists narrative, they get called  a hate group, and are attacked at every chance.

Feminists are not what they used to be in the eighties or nineties.    Those women were true feminists.  They wanted equal treatment, not special treatment.  They wanted to be able to sleep with whomever they wished and accepted the consequences of doing so.   Today’s feminists that are coming out of the Canadian Universities, do not want to accept any responsibility for anything.  They don’t want to work as hard as everyone else, they do not wish to earn those positions of prestige, like being members of a board.    They refuse to listen to reason and don’t understand why their choices, affect their earning potential, or even that by choosing to sleep around, without protection, that they will be mothers when they are not ready, and end up miserable.

This is why, you have been seeing those online comments as threats dear feminists and universities.    This is why your guilty conscious, perceives angry comments online as threats and not comments.  It is because deep down, you know you are doing something wrong.

And you know what Universities and Feminists?   You do deserve it.  If you continue, the way you have, things could get worse.   Men in general have formed groups outside of your college campus’, they have joined online communities to discuss these issues.    Some see you as a joke, some see you as harmless, but some, do not see you as anything but a threat, and sadly, those are the young men who are surrounded by the hate on campus’s across Canada, and even the United states.

Now here is a dose of truth, and reality.   Women are treated very well in western society.   They are not treated equal, no.  They are actually treated superior than men.   They get so much preferential treatment due to their gender, that men, are dying because of it.

Your own universities have incentives to get women into the campus’, and stem branches of learning.   Incentives which you profit from, and due to this men are lagging behind in education.   Not equal.

In law, women are treated as victims, even when they commit crimes.   It is less likely a jury will convict a woman than if the defendant was a man.  If a man goes to trial, the chances of him going to jail for the same crime a woman does rises significantly.

In society, if a woman is beating a man in public, he is laughed at, and teased, and accused of “deserving” it, by both men and women.   If a man beats a woman in public, or even defends himself from an attack from a woman, then he is accused of being a criminal.

In the workplace, women can make a complaint about sexual harassment, without any evidence or proof and it is taken seriously.   If a man makes the same complaint about a woman, it is treated lightly and even ignored.

The real feminists attained equality for their gender decades ago.    It is now time to stop the gender studies courses.  It is time to turn to real learning.

Stop teaching hate, stop teaching young minds to hate half the population.  Or you may find that half the population will fight back, and by looking at today’s society, that time may not be that far off.

Yours Truly.
A Man

D&G advertisement – How they are promoting a myth of Rape Culture.

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I have been seeing outrage over this advertisement by D&G today.  Articles, arguments and controversy.  It all stemmed from a statement by the fashion duo that stated that IVF children are synthetic children and the only people that should have children are a man and woman.      So the outrage poured in, and the media was flooded with everyone putting their two cents in.  Then, today I saw outrage at the advertisement above and articles citing that this promotes rape.   So because of this statement from the douche duo of the fashion world, they and their brand are under a microscope, and every little thing wrong is pointed out, even perceived wrongs that don’t exist like the photo above.

Now I understand the topic of rape is an emotional one and, anyone who has suffered through rape will automatically go to dark places based on their experiences and assume the worst.  This is simply because their mind had a traumatic experience and their thought processes are on survival.   So as a result, the people who are overly sensitive to the topic will go to the worst scenario on seeing something like this.

I however, see some problems with this.   I don’t see this at all as promoting rape.  I see five bored gay male models and one equally bored woman.   A person who is being raped, is anything but bored looking but has a look of abject terror or fear.   I see none of this in the image.

Other people have stated that this promotes a “gang-bang” and this is supposed to be wrong.   I disagree.  If all participants are there of their on free will, and consent to the activities in the gang-bang then there is nothing wrong with it.   I got angry comments on that statement from many.

In the gay community did we not fight for years for our rights to be recognized to do as we wish in the bedroom with other adults as long as it was consensual?  I asked a friend who is also gay, and he decried this was morally wrong.  Gang-Bangs are wrong! He said in the comments on his post against this ad.   I asked him, how is it wrong if everyone is adults and consenting?    “It just is”.   And my favorite answer, “because the majority said so”.

I always love the argument that the majority has the moral right to decide what I can and cannot do in the bedroom.   Regardless of the fact it hurts no one, it’s still wrong.   And that was his stance.    Then in private, he told me that in school when he was learning advertising (He owns a media company), he stated that if even one person is offended the ad should be pulled.   I thought to myself, “You really believe companies that pay thousands upon thousands, even millions in advertisements will pull entire ads because one single person gets offended?”     That is a huge no.   It takes a huge public outcry for any company to even consider removing an advertisement or stopping an ad campaign.

And of course the myth came up over and over. I’ve discussed this myth at length before and will say it everytime.  There is no group of people, who actively say rape is good.  The men in general believe rape is wrong.   It’s only the severely screwed up people in the world who rape both men and women.

Next is another advertisement from the same fashion house.
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As you can see by the image, if I was to go directly to a deep dark place, I could assume this depicted men being tormented by women and abused verbally if not psychically.   I posted this image and asked where was the outrage when this was done?  Why are the feminists and their supporters angry about this?     This image is from their 2007 advertising campaign.

Here is another from that same campaign:

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Here we see the women again, not only forcing the men to strip, but doing so under a whipping. (Notice the riding crop).

Why are the women not angry at this?   Or why didn’t the world scream at this?   I can answer this.

We are men.  We are the evil of the world.  We may be loving husbands, fathers, caring and supportive, but because we have a penis, then we are bad people in general.  So it’s okay to beat us, humiliate us, accuse us of promoting rape, and sexualizing women.  Even if those women are doing it by consent and full agreement.    It doesn’t matter.    And if your a man and don’t support this myth blindly, then your labeled as a misogynist and are attacked.

I’m tired of being attacked all the time.  For asking questions to further my understanding of the viewpoints of others.  I’m tired of being attacked for sharing my viewpoint or even just saying “I just don’t see it”.   I’m tired of being attacked for no good reason other than the fact I have my sexual organs on the outside of my body.

Here is another image that didn’t conjure outrage from the feminists either:

D&Gadman

So here is an image that has five men.  One is naked on the floor with his eyes closed and the others are either dressing or undressing.   If you go to that bad dark place and assume the worst, you could say that the guy was drugged and is about to be raped.   Or you could assume like I do this is just an image of the after the fact of a gay gang-bang.   Which happens a lot in the gay community, so do orgies, and group sex of many types and fetishes.   Including men in suits like the one above.

So, assuming this is wrong.  Where was the outrage, from the gay community and the feminists?   There wasn’t, or at least if there was, it was less than a peep on the media scope.  After all, it’s just men in the image being sexualized and promoting the gang rape of men.

The hypocrites of the feminists movement are just that. They get angry at the treatment of women they think is unfair even it is by consent but cheer.  Or they get outraged when it’s pointed out that men are abused by both men and women just as much as women are. Like in this billboard advertisement:

equality-canada-billboard

If your actually offended by the above billboard then quite possibly your one of those women who are abusing their spouse/partner.   There are many forms of abuse, and not all of them are sexual.   Many are harmful and don’t leave visible scars.

Emotional abuse.   Many women and men will use emotional attacks to degrade or humiliate you.    Using emotional manipulation to abuse.   Many, many women use this expertly.  I don’t care what gender you are both do this but women by nature have this down to an art form.

Verbal abuse.  Similar to emotional abuse Verbal is usually direct attacks on a person like name calling or degradation.    If a man does this he is attacked by others for doing it.  If a woman does it to a man, in public even, there is laughter at the “poor guys” suffering and women cheering on their gender on.

Violence.    Slapping, hitting, or any kind of physical attack can be considered this.    However, if a woman attacks a man, it’s considered okay in mainstream society.  After all a women can do no wrong.

Sexual abuse – This is actually quite common.  You think men are the only ones who sexually assault?  No.  I’ve been slapped on the ass, had by testicles cupped, slapped and even woke up one night to a woman fondling me against my consent.    If I was to report it, the police wouldn’t do anything.

Rape – Rape is defined as the act of penetration of the body.    This is not sexual it’s about control.  Men do it to men and now women are doing it to men.   Again, it goes unreported or treated like rape because simply, a man should be able to fight off their attacker since they are a man.

This is all garbage and the women and their supporters who think men are the root of all evil are just plain stupid.  Women are just as much to blame for things as men are.   So get off your high horses ladies and move into reality.

And before anyone assumes anything, just for disclosure.  I’ve been the target of two attempted rapes in my life, had been in abusive relationships with men and have been abused by women who I once called friends.   So I’m quite experienced personally with this topic.  And I choose not to be a victim or let this define my life.